Posted By: Roxanne

Linda: I'm thankful that you had the opportunity for a vacation and some rest. I'm praying that God heals your back and strengthens you enabling you to do all that He desires you to accomplish. "He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake (Psalm 23:2-3)." May the presence of Jesus bless and comfort you today. He will provide the resources. Love in Christ, Roxanne

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Posted By: julie morrison

Hi to All, When Lori and Erik began their journey, a family of supportive friends and family rallied together to show their support and love. I think about Lori, Erik and family still everyday. I am excited to see the creation of a foundation in Lori's name and hope that we can continue to fight Lori's battle in her name with the same love and support everyone has shown. I miss the communication between everyone on this site, I felt very connected to many of you that I have never even met. My hope is that through Lori's foundation I personally can stay connected with all of you through future endeavours. God Bless, Julie

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Posted By: Tammy

Although you do not know me i would like to send my sincere sympathy to your family in your recent loss of your loved one. I lost my Mother on March 7 of this year. She was diganosed with a glioblastoma multiforme brain tumor grade iv.in November of 2004. Reading the entries in your journal sound so familiar to what we had gone through with my Mother. I only wish we had more time, she was only 54. It sounds like your Family has so much support for each other and that is so wonderful! You definatly will need that in time to come. Again i am so sorry for your loss. Continue to pray for each other and others that are going through the same things. Prayers to you all. Tammy brian.libidinsky@rcn.com

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Posted By: Roxanne

Linda: I'll be praying for you and Lisa that God connects you with the right people, and that your meetings go well. Blessings, Roxanne : )

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Posted By: colleen lee

Bravo Mom and Sis! Just when I think I've seen the height of inspiration, I read about painting, working and grieving together, travel, and yet another creative idea. Your new foundation LIVE, LOVE, LAAF! sounds like an exciting extension of Lori. Have you all always been this way? Take care, Colleen Lee. P.S. Lori, you must be so proud.

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Posted By: BIG SIS

I miss you, love you and think about you daily. I want you to know, Lori, that you are a driving force in my life. I will strive to keep your dreams alive and continue your brave fight by instilling your inspiration into others. I can't believe it's been a month already since you've left us -- my heart aches just speaking those words -- but your spirit lives on and I feel your presence here with me every day! LISA live, love, L.A.A.F.- Lori Arquilla Andersen Foundation

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Posted By: Roxanne

I continue to pray for the presence of Jesus to be near you bringing his comfort and love. I am thankful that God has provided direction, and pray for his wisdom to be with you. Lori is shining in Heaven's light in much joy and rest. Her presence will continue to shine here as well because of the love that you continue to share keeping hope alive. “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit (Romans 15:13). May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word (2 Thessalonians 2:16-17).” Love in Christ, Roxanne

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Posted By: Chris (Zipparro) Albrecht

Just wanted to express my deepest sympathies. I was a grade school classmate of Lori's at St. Zachary's. Lori was always such a kind person. And, after having read many of the entries on this website, it is clear she was a kind and loving person who was loved by many in return. This website is beautiful. Thank you for sharing her story.

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Posted By: Rena

Linda, Please post your email address again - the email address listed is not working. Thank you.

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Posted By: Ed Arquilla and family

Lori-We just wanted to let you know we are thinking about you. You are always with us no matter where we are. You are missed but never forgotten. We love you very much. We WILL continue to fight the brave fight you started. You showed us to NEVER give up! Love your bro, Christa, Anthony and Isabelle

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Posted By: Phil Barkett

I haven't been able to put thoughts on the page until this evening...a couple of things come to mind... Lori displayed a sharing, caring, loving, inclusive, attitude with her everywhere. She made people feel comfortable because she was comfortable with herself. We should all take a page out of her book on how to treat others, and how to respect yourself. Second, to the families, specifically Erik and Linda. Thank you for opening up your minds and hearts by sharing your lives with us over the past two years. It's never easy to deliver news which you know will be unsettling. I, and many others who are not living in Chicago, appreciated the time you spent expressing your feelings and inner-most thoughts as you let the world know how tough Lori was as she fought through her struggle. You were our link to her world. Thank you. Lastly, life is cruel. But, Lori was amazing. Having been fortunate enough to know her has made me a better person.

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Posted By: Tom Y

Never knew Lori, but sounded like a very sweet girl. I was saddened to hear about her loss. I read alot of her entries on her site here about what she had to go through when she had gotten diagnosed with a brain tumor. Such a young pretty girl! She seemed so strong! My thoughts and prayers go out to her family and friends in these hard times. she is definetly in a better place! God Bless!

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Posted By: julie morrison

Linda and family, I am anxious to hear of your wonderful ideas for a foundation for Lori. Please know that we are all still here for you and are not giving up Lori's fight. Her work is not yet done, she has been such an insperation, I believe there are many more people that can be touched by her life. Looking forward to supporting your efforts. Julie

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Posted By: Adriaan Risseeuw

Erik, I recently got the bad news about Lori's passing away. Please know that Mireille and I want to show our sympathy and that you are in our minds. I am very impressed with this website and the openess of sharing your history. I wold like to share with you a Dutch poem, which I think is appropriate; I was so kind to include a translation: Weggaan – Rutger Kopland Weggaan is iets anders dan het huis uitsluipen zacht de deur dichttrekken achter je bestaan en niet terugkeren. Je blijft iemand op wie wordt gewacht. Weggaan kun je beschrijven als een soort van blijven. Niemand wacht want je bent er nog. Niemand neemt afscheid want je gaat niet weg. Going Away Going away is something different than sneaking out of the house softly pulling the door shut behind your existence and not returning. You remain someone who is waited for. Going away one might describe as a kind of staying. Nobody waits because you're still there. Nobody says goodbye because / you're not going away. Regards from us in Amsterdam, Adriaan, Mireille, Marijn & Olivier

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Posted By: A friend of Ed's

Eric, Linda, and the rest of your wonderful family, I just wanted to say that I hope you all are doing well and you are in my prayers. I hope that all of you become the major players in finding a cure for this horrible disease. Your family has changed my life for the better. Lori is such an inspiration to me. Thank You.

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Posted By: Colleen Chambers

Erik, Linda and Lori's family, Just wanted you to know that not a day's gone by when you haven't been in my thoughts and prayers, as well as Lori herself. Looking forward, Linda, to hearing about the final outcome of the brainstorming! In the meanwhile, know that you all continue to be held in our hearts. With love, Colleen, John and the girls

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Posted By: Carla your friend

Erik,Linda,and Lori's whole family you gave Lori a beautiful service, I felt as if she was just smiling to see how much she is loved. I think about her everyday and pray for her and all of you. I truely beleive she is at peace and has that cute little smile on her face as she always did. I miss my old dear friend who I shared so many fun memories with I talk about her all the time and tell people what a sweet person she was always happy & laughing all the time. God bless you my friend you are at peace. love your friend and dance partner. we will always be salt & pepper.

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Posted By: Sandy Zmich

Erik & Linda, Just wanted to let you know that you are still in my thoughts and prayers..I think of Lori often. They are happy thoughts..There were so many aspects of Lori's life that I wasn't even aware of until the service this weekend, which was absolutely beautiful..Like her drawings, did not know she was such a great artist..Knew she was a dancer and loved to travel and had a smile that just didn't quite....She was definitely a very special person, with many talents..She has effected a lot of lives in her short time on this earth and hopefully this will be of some consulation to you and the family in the days to follow....Take Care and peace be with you both.

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Posted By: julie morrison

Erik and Family, It was so nice to be with all of you during these difficult times. I really felt at peace Saturday, because I really felt Lori's presence and know that all she wants is for everyone to be okay. The service was truly beautiful and the perfect way to celebrate her life.

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Posted By: Andie (Pear) Macak

To Erik and family - I was so sorry to hear about Lori's passing. I truly believe that Lori is looking down on us and smiling. I had met Lori through some mutal friends back in our mid 20's and through that we became really good friends. I remember her coming to visit me in LA and holding her hand as she got her first tattoo. I will always cherish the time I had spent with Lori. I had lost touch with her about 10 years ago but she did pop into my mind every once in awhile. I would wonder what she was up to and glad that she found a love like Erik. Erik you were Lori's rock through her difficult times. Now she is dancing with the angels in heaven and watching over everyone who loves her. Lori I will miss you dearly and I know we will meet again. Keep smiling and dancing. Love Andie

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Posted By: Kim Zeitler

To Lori's family-I am sorry to hear of your loss. I knew Lori through some other friends and have not seen her in a few years. It is scary to know someone of our age is not exempt from these types of monstrous diseases. God works in mysterious ways, and this only makes you take a heartfelt look at life, and in the words of Tim McGraw "Live like you are dying". My deepest sympathy to all. May Lori rest in peace.

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Posted By: Paula Holt

Erik and family - I was so saddened to hear about Lori's passing. I met Lori back in the late 80's through some mutual friends. I will always remember her great smile and how much fun she was to be around. I lost touch with her quite a while ago but she popped into my mind every once in a while. I told her mom at the wake that I gave Lori my ID before she turned 21 so that she could get into the bars and hang out with all of her "older" friends! I remember those days like they were yesterday. Lori lived a great life & had friends & family that loved her. Lori was so lucky to find you Erik. Heaven now has another angel looking down on us. Lori will never be forgotten.

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Posted By: Maria Fotinopoulos

To Erik and family, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Lori was one of my best friends from about the age of 17 through my mid 20s. We shared secrets, double dated on occasion, went out together a lot, just had a good time. We lost track about 5 or 6 years ago. I didn't even know she'd met Erik and gotten married. Thank God for Erik - I am so glad she had someone so loving and supportive to help her through. I will always remember her bubbly personality, her smile, her ability to see something good and happy in everything. Even as a friend I'd lost track of, I remembered her smile and her energy, fondly, but now, for sure, I will think of her as angel in heaven, watching over all of us. And of course, teaching the other angels and residents of heaven how to "bust a move!". Take solace in knowing that she suffers no more. Laugh for her, live for her, enjoy life for her. Please don't sit around and let it pass you by. This definitely reminds us that life is way too short and we must make the most of, and treasure, every moment that we have. May her spirit and love of life inspire us all. May her memory be eternal, and may she rest in peace. Love, Maria

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Posted By: Philip Meadows

As I read the messages on this website, I am reminded of the incredible and intangible thing we call life. There are so many aspects of our existance we will never understand or comprehend. Our everyday interaction with others brings about so many joys, pains, love, hate, mystery, sureness, freedom, and restraints...to name a few, that we cannot begin to digest it all. All that we have at the end of the day is eachother and the time that we share. I am so grateful that the small amount of time I was able to spend getting to know Lori was one of happiness and celebration. She was a very kind and strong minded soul. She accepted me unconditionally as a close friend since I had known Erik for several years before they met. My thoughts and prayers go out to everyone who was touched by Lori's presence. She will without a doubt be greatly missed.

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Posted By: Judy

Dearest Lori, (I have faith that there is email in Heaven :o) Thank you for showing so many people what it means to live in grace. Thank you for being such a beautiful example of how to let pure love pour into your self so completely. Thank you for giving Erik that same pure love. Thank you.

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Posted By: matt dodge

Dear Auntie Lori, we all miss you very much.Mom says you'll be waiting for us and your going to decorate the place so when we get there it will be all nice and clean.You looked very prety today and we know you'll love the harpest that comes tomorrow.You were my godmother and now you are my guardian angel.I love you very much and miss you.

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Posted By: julie morrison

To All who read this site..... I have sat down at my desk every morning and logged into this site for my daily update. It is difficult for me to imagine starting my day without my progress report and feeling so connected. There have been so many creative and talented people who both visit and create this site it's amazing. I feel like I have been part of an online family that I am not ready to part with yet :). God Bless, Julie Morrison

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Posted By: Anonymous

I did not know Lori, nor Eric, Linda or any of their friends or relatives, but I feel like I do. I even had tears brimming when she passed to heaven three days ago. I stumbled onto this website many, many months ago and began to read it intermittently then regularly. The love this family has is amazing and their fight to help Lori is astounding. You have touched more lives than you will ever know. You are a true inspiration to all.

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Posted By: Naomi White

Erik and family, know that you all are a true inspiration to families everywhere as a testament to love, strength, support, truth and determination. I look forward to thinking of Lori and her life and smiling. She was a very special soul and she will stay in our warmest thoughts. My heart and prayers are with you all.

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Posted By: julie morrison

Erik and Family, You will be forever in my thoughts as well as Lori. The both of you have changed so many lives it is unbelievable. You have been a true example of real love, and it has been beautiful to witness. Julie

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Posted By: Casey & Jaxx

Dear Erik and Family, Am thinking of you and praying for the strength of the Holy Spirit to guide and comfort you all during this time of loss and sorrow. I keep thinking of the bible verse that says, "I go to prepare a place for you".... I often think that so many of the beautiful lights of my life, all the family and friends that have left us too soon, including Lori, are doing just that!! I also believe from the bottom of my heart that the best way we can honor the loving spirits of the many wonderful people who have passed away from us is to promise them (and ourselves) to live this gift of the human experience even more fully -- to allow ourselves to feel our sorrows deeply now, but to also truly experience the joy, happiness, and hope in every new day once again. I know that right now it takes a lot of faith to believe that can happen, but please gain strength & solace from all the people who have loved and prayed for you during this journey. Their messages here on the website are evidence of God's love right here on earth! I hope this site continues to bless and comfort you in the many days of sorrow (and Joy..!) to come. XOXOXO - Casey & Jaxx

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Posted By: Kathryn and Mike Carroll

Dear Erik, My heart just hurts for you and all of Lori's family. I know you all fought this horrible disease as hard as you possibly could. We are visiting my family down South and won't be able to be with you tomorrow. But know that we love you and you are in our thoughts...always. Mike and I have often fondly recalled a little time we spent with the 2 of you at Bill and Kim's wedding. That was really the only opportuntity we had to know Lori--but we both thought she was such a lovely girl. I know she will truly be missed. We love you. Kathryn and Mike

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Posted By: john nelson - Madison, Wis

Soooo sorry, Erik.

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Posted By: David Andersen

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

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Posted By: Sheri McMurray

On July 5, early afternoon, I ran at the lake. I am not a runner, but since returning to Chicago I run for those who need my energy, and Lori was high on my list. I run and when I feel like I want to stop, I keep going because Lori had to keep going with more surgeries and more chemo. She was so strong and brave. After I run I look out at our beautiful lake and our beautiful sky and our beautiful world and give thanks for this life we all are blessed to have. On that day, I knew that soon Lori would be free; she would be in the air and the water, with the birds, experiencing only pure joy. I didn't know she was already there. I will still run for Lori, for the memory of the beautiful, vivacious, joyful woman she was. But she is now able to do things which are truly unimaginable for all of us. My heart goes out to those who loved her with all of their hearts. To Erik, may God grant you peace, and may Lori's everlasting love for you help you heal. To Linda, I wish you peace, as well. You fought just as hard as Lori did, and your strength and energy and love for your daughter show us all how precious life is. I wish that all of us with whom you have shared Lori's life with could now carry the burden of your sorrow. All we can do is continue to pray for you. Much love and healing to you all. Sheri and Dave

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Posted By: carla

Erik, Linda and Family, I am so sorry about lori's passing my prayers are with her and your family. You all showed so much love and prayers and support for her she will always be loved ! I am sure she is at peace and dancing her feet off like a beautiful dancer she was and always will be. I too will miss you Lori your friend always!!! Carla

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Posted By: Sonya

Dear Erik, I wish you all strength and hope. My thoughts are with you. Yours, Sonya

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Posted By: Lynn Phillips Andersen

Dear Erik and family, I will continue to pray for you all...Lori will be missed...thank-you for letting me get to know you and love you all.

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Posted By: Vonda Evans

Linda and Erik, I am so saddened to hear of Lori's passing. I am amazed by your strength and by Lori's apparent beauty, inside and out. Please know she walks beside you always. A rose once grew where all could see, Sheltered beside a garden wall, And, as the days passed swiftly by, It spread its branches, straight and tall... One day, a beam of light shone through a crevice that had opened wide - The rose bent gently towards its warmth then passed beyond to the other side ... Now, you who deeply feel its loss, be comforted - the rose blooms there - its beauty even greater now, nurtured by God's own loving care.

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Posted By: Ed Arquilla

Lori- teach those Angels how to dance!

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Posted By: chuck siconolfi

Erik My deepest condolences. You and Lori confronted her illness with strength, love, diginity, and determination. The prayers of all of us are with you both and with your families.

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Posted By: Ed Arquilla- Brother of Lori

Lori, I will miss you! We will miss you! Words can not describe what I feel right now. I have seen someone I love fight the biggest, badest, and nastiest disease out there, and fight until the very end. For people that were not around to see it, Lori fought this battle with every ounce of energy she had, and was winning! For those that did see it, you know what I mean. 5 Surgeries! Chemo treatments, anything it would take to beat it. She would not quit. Never was there a time that she told me she wanted to quit, NEVER. The strength and courage from you Lori was amazing. UNBELIEVABLE! I was amazed. You have showed me and everyone that we should never give up and keep fighting. How did you do it? Where did the strength come from? It came from God, Erik, Mom, and all the people that Loved you very much. I wear this gray band every day and think of you, I think how strong you are and never to give up. Over the last 22 months you have showed us all how to live, from the Mardi Gras in Alabama and the trip we all went on to Puerto Rico, we have all seen the importance of family and enjoying life. You showed us what is important, and we should not count the years, but make the years count!! Lori, we love you, I love you. From my family, Christa, Anthony, Isabelle and I, your brother, you will be missed and we love you more then words can ever describe. Love your Big, but younger brother, Ed

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Posted By: Donna Ware

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Lori's story is an inspiration to us all.

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Posted By: Jen & Chris Boatman

Dear Erik, Lori's family and Erik's family... I was so sad today to read my email from Bill and when I did it just took my breath away. Actually, yesterday morning Lori just seemed to pop in my head and I was wondering how she was doing...it was about 10am Pacific time...funny how spirits work in mysterious ways....Erik...our hearts are with you through this healing process and please, please know even though we are far away, we are thinking of you and ALWAYS wondering how your doing...I don't know if we can fly in for the funeral but please know our thougths will be with you and your family throughout this weekend and beyond....I love you!!!! Jen and Chris Boatman(vickers)

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Posted By: Christy Barkoskie friend of Lisa

Erik, Lisa and family. I was so sad to read my email just a few minutes ago. I have been praying for all of you since the beginning and certainly will continue to do so. Lisa, if there is anything you need, please let me know.

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Posted By: Denise Polifka

Dear Erik, Linda and family....my love and condolenscenes to all of you during this time of mourning. God Bless all of you. Love, Denise

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Posted By: Ann Althoff

Erik: I regretfully did not have an opportunity to meet Lori, but knowing the love and devotion you had for her...I knew she was a "special" lady. It is impossible to comprehend the emotions you must feel at this time. But, I know God will help you, and those who have loved Lori so much, to lean on each other as well as to embrace all the wonderful memories Lori has given you. You are in my prayers, Ann

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Posted By: Ilona Osinski

Dear Erik and Lori's family, I have been following Lori's illness for awhile and have so admired all of you. Linda, I don't know you, but as a mother I felt every moment of your love, devotion and courage. You transferred your strength and faith to your beautiful daughter. Erik, my heart breaks for you.Try to find comfort in the fact that the love that you and Lori had in several years, most people don't find in a lifetime.I hope you will find peace in the very wonderful person with whom you shared your life. She was so special she will send you the courage to continue. My deep and sincere condolences to you, Lori's family and everyone whose life she touched. She will be there siritually to help all of you continue without her earthly presence. Love,Ilona Osinski

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Posted By: Kyla Nagel

Erik and family- I am so incredibly saddened by your loss of Lori. I know that she lives on in peace with our Father in Heaven, but I want you to know that I had enormous hope for her and that I prayed for her healing every night. Words cannot even begin to express how completely devastated I feel about Lori's passing. I will continue to pray for your family. Love, Kyla GBM survivor 3 years

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Posted By: Mary Ann Cleaves m/o Eric Buss

No words can express how much my heart aches for Linda and Erik and all of Lori's family and friends. Lori's battle is won, she is truly an angel among angels. I will always picture Lori in my mind dressed in white silk, dancing in heaven. My deepest sympathy is with all of you.

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Posted By: Laurie Allen

Erik, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you are comforted by the fact that you and Lori found one another in a time when you needed each other the most. I'm sure she felt enormously blessed to have you in her life. Her spirit and strength show us the importance of giving love without hesitation, for as wonderful as life is here on Earth, it is precious and sometimes fleeting... God Bless you and your family

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Posted By: jens

all of my love and my hopes for peace, my friend.

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Posted By: Linda Gibney, friend of Lisa's

Dear EriK, Lisa, Linda and the rest of the family, I am so choked up by the news that I literally cried into my coffee this morning. I cannot find the words to express how much I feel for you and I know I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through. My prayers have been with you throughout this journey as they are now. Around the same time Lori was diagnosed I was diagnosed with breast cancer and even though I am doing well, I may have had some of the same thoughts and fears that Lori probably had initially. It may be forward of me to think this may give you some peace but I came to look at passing as a journey to paradise we all will take and some of us just board an earlier train than others. I don't take it as lightly as this sounds... it's just a comfort to me to think that as hard as it is now, we WILL all be together again. I look forward to meeting this amazing woman, Lori. My most heartfelt sympathies, Linda Gibney

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Posted By: Fran Zimmermann

Lori and her loving family are an inspiration and a testament to the human spirit. I'm so sorry that Lori has gone and know that you will miss her light and her joy. May the love of God enfold you -- always. Fran

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Posted By: Beth & Ed Hepko

To Lori's family, We were very sad to hear the news of Lori's passing. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you since the beginning. We are continuing to keep you in our hearts, during this time as well.

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Posted By: Farrell & Colin

Erik, Lori's parents, friends and family: Our heartfelt condolences on Lori's passing. I met Lori through my sister, but didn't truly get to know her until I started reading her postings on this site. Her story is one of love and courage, and should serve as a reminder to all of us to be grateful for each other, for the time we have together, for love, laughter, friendship and health. All the things we tend to take for granted. I pray that time will help heal the pain for you, and the memories of what was great in her life will comfort you. Her life and story have been an inspiration to so many people, and that is what our purpose in life truly is, to inspire. With respect and love, Farrell and Colin

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Posted By: Pat Thernell

I am so very sorry to hear about Lori today. I know she is with God and that someday you will all be reunited. I hope that thought brings you some peace.

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Posted By: Sherita Brown

I am so very sorry to hear about Lori's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.

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Posted By: Cathy B.

Dear Linda, Erik and Family, So very very sorry to hear this today.....may God give you peace and serenity in knowing you fought the good fight with dear Lori every step of the way and now she is at rest, beautiful as always, beautiful forever....with deepest sympathy and prayers, Cathy B. w/o Lou dx inoperable gbm 10/04 (patient of Dr. Raizers)

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Posted By: friend of a friend

My heart is breaks as I read "sharing". What an amazing person your wife, daughter, sister, grandaughter, friend was. She was loved by so many and most especially by God as he brought her to him early. I pray for you during this painful, painful time. God bless Lori and grant her peace.

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Posted By: Dirk

I never knew Lori. I was introduced to her and Erik through a prayer request nearly two years ago. Watching and listening from a thousand miles away I couldn't see the tears; I couldn't feel the pain; I couldn't soften the burden; I couldn't know the ultimate feeling of loss her dear friends and family know now; but I COULD see God at work. If Lori's life touched all of you who were blessed enough to be close to her, please know that she touched hundreds, maybe thousands of us who never met her personally. (Maybe THIS was His plan all along.) As she's celebrated both here and with her Father, take peace in the fact that Lori has blessed many of us in a manner more richly than we deserve.

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Posted By: Carole Clemente

To all of Lori's loved ones: My heart goes out to all of you. As you move forward I will continue to pray for the entire family. May peace be with you all.

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Posted By: Carole in Arizona

I just checked in, as I do every day, and experienced a sudden sadness when I heard of Lori's passing. I know she is in heaven looking down at all the wonderful people who have been supporting her throughout this whole thing. I will be in Chicago next week, and will make it a point to stop by the cemetary to visit with her. I wish the entire family all the best during this difficult time.

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Posted By: Jessica

Dear Lori, Linda, Erik and family, You have been in my thoughts throughout this journey. Please take comfort in knowing that they are people who are thinking and praying for you and your family.

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Posted By: Barbara Burnette (Jay, Nick, Tyler & Max too)

Dear Erik & Family: Our deepest of sympathy. We'll continue to pray for all of you, including Lori. She is a very special soul & you all have a very special angel now shining on you for the rest of your lives. Lori touched so many lives and you all showed us the real meaning of family and love. As always, you are all an inspiration. Love Always, Barbara, Jay, Nick & Tyler

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Posted By: Kyle St. Peter

Erik, this is a very sad day but one that begins a new journey for all. On behalf of the HOK family our thoughts and prayers are with you. Linda, you displayed grace and composure over the past 22 months. This web journal elegantly and honestly describes Lori's hope and suffering. Lori waged a tremendous battle, I know her physical and spiritual strength came from you, Erik and your wonderful family and friends. God Bless.

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Posted By: julie morrison

Linda, Erik and Family, although we may not be standing their next to you, we are all here to suppport and love you. Thinking of all of you and sending out prayers for strength and peace. All my love, Julie

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Posted By: Debbie and Rich

Our thoughts and prayers are still with you along with the hopes of strength to smile when you remember all the happy moments you have been lucky enough to share. A more peaceful time is near and your heavy hearts will soon again be lightened. Your strength has inspired so many of us and make us realize how precious life is.

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Posted By: Marcia and Rob Donziger

Lori, Erik, and Linda, Our hearts are heavy with yours as we pray for Lori's peaceful journey. Your strong faith and strength continue to inspire us daily. I wish we could help - if there is anything we can do, please let us know. We are always with you in spirit.

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Posted By: Kyle St. Peter

Erik, This is a very sad day but also the beginning of a new journey for all. On behalf of the entire HOK family our thoughts and prayers are with you. Linda, you have displayed amazing grace and composure over the past year. This web journal elegantly and honestly detailed Lori's hope and suffering. It was a beautiful idea and when read in its entirety speaks to love and family. Lori waged a tremendous battle. I know her physical and spiritual strength came from her wonderful family and friends. God bless.

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Posted By: a friend of Colleen's

I'm so sorry that Lori has been taken from all of you, but know that she has gone to a wonderful place. I have kept up with her struggle on the website and feel connected in some way. My younger sister and a very young neice also died of the same type of brain tumor. So I do know how you're feeling, and that the sadness fades in time, to leave just warm and happy memories of what a wonderful person Lori was, and indeed still is, just somewhere else. One of the thoughts that comforted me on the death of my sister was one given by the minister at her funeral. It was a long reading about how, down here we are all saying sadly, "Lori is gone...we will miss Lori so much." But on the other side, there is joyous singing and everyone is saying, "Have you heard? Lori is coming! Lori is coming!" I'm sure that is just what is happening now. My thoughts are with you. Shirley Weaver

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Posted By: Bill, Kim & Maggie

Erik & Family ... our hearts are heavy as we mourn Lori's passing ... know that Lori will be missed dearly and that we are still thinking of you and praying for all of you and Lori. Her trials are over and she is now at peace in God's kingdom in Heaven. God Bless you all ... Love Bill, Kim, & Maggie

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Posted By: Vickie Delorto

Lori, your life is a great inspiration. I love you, and will see you again. Love, Vickie

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Posted By: Jerry and Amy Ciolek

We will keep you and your families in our prayers. May God grant peace to you, Lori and your loved ones.

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Posted By: Roxanne A.

Linda, Erik & Family: I honestly find great difficulty knowing what to say at such a time of great sadness. Death never makes sense. I've only known Lori since Valentine’s Day via a simple email sharing her story and asking for prayer. I began to pray. I was very blessed to pray and meet both Lori & Erik personally. Despite the poor prognosis, I have continued to pray for a miracle of complete healing on this side until this very moment. I don't understand God's will. Healing is always a mystery. None of us can escape the fact that we will all eventually meet the end here, and our time is always unknown to us. I know without doubt that our God is a loving God and that Jesus is our path to salvation and eternal life. Jesus is the great comforter and healer. A while back, I received a vision of Lori holding onto the hand of Jesus and it assured me that Jesus had his grip on Lori tightly and would not let her go. I trust in this vision that I believe to be from God. I know that she is now in peace and fully healed in the presence of Jesus. I will pray for comfort to be with all of you. I cannot even begin to imagine the pain that is deep in your hearts and souls with such a dear loss in your life after such a long journey. I know that Jesus has all of your hearts in his hands, and I pray that all of you will feel and experience His presence and joy even at this time of great sadness. Someone dear spoke to me once, "Joy is not the absence of sorrow but the presence of Christ." I pray that the presence of Jesus will bring you joy, peace, love, and great comfort. Know that you are loved deeply by Jesus. He is very near to all of you. You remain in my prayers. Love in Christ, Roxanne

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Posted By: Cynthia Baumann-Retalic

Linda, Erik and family - From Boston, I send to each of you a prayer for peace. I have watched this journey since the beginning. Sometimes in life people cross your path that just make your heart sing. Erik and Lori, Linda, my Braintumor List friend, you have been incredible, brave, wonderful and always gentle. I remember looking at these wedding pictures, thinking, how cute are they? Linda, may God Bless you this evening and give you the best memories ever. CB Boston

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Posted By: David and Jody Chassin

We were saddened to hear of Lori's passing today. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. The courage and hope displayed by Lori, you Erik and the family are inspirational and we know this strength will help you all at this difficult time. Condolences to the entire extended family.

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Posted By: Sandy Zmich

Erik, LInda and family, I just wanted to say I was just on the web site and read about Lori's passing. I am so very sorry for all of you..You know she is in a better place now and the fight is over, she is at peace. I don't have a clue as to what you are enduring right now, I can only imagine, but wanted you to know that if there is anything at all I can do to help with anything at all, please don't hesitate to call. I know you have a lot of family support, but if you need a friend, call. My deepest sympathy and prayers are with you forever. Sandy

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Posted By: Colleen Chambers

Dear Erik and family, We continue our prayers for you and grieve with you. We know that you've lost a great gift but also that heaven has received her and that she's at peace. Thank you for your beautiful posting. Our hearts are with you. With love, Colleen, John and the girls

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Posted By: Colleen Chambers

Dear Erik, Lori, Linda and family, We are praying for Lori's peaceful journey and yours as well. May the good Lord hold and guide each of you as a new journey begins for all of you. Know that you're truly loved by so very many and our hearts are broken with yours. As ever, your strength and grace amazes. With love, Colleen, John, Grace, Mollie and Ellie

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Posted By: Tim & Dana

Along with yours, our hearts are also heavy. We are comforted that Lori is surrounded with so much love and that she is peaceful. She is so very loved and admired for her strength, and the grace she used to fight her courageous battle. We send our love at this most difficult time and want you to know that our hearts ache with yours.

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Posted By: George

Here is the English translation from the German "Little Prince" poem posted July 1 by Petra. "When at night you look at the sky, it will appear to you that all the stars laughed, because I live on one of them, because on one of them I am laughing. You alone will have stars that can laugh!" You are in our thoughts, Linda and George

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Posted By: David Pelzer

Lori and Eric -- We are thinking of you today, as we do every day. Our prayers are with you.

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Posted By: Brian and Rena

Dear Erik, Lori, Linda and Family, Not a day passes without thoughts and prayers for all of you ... We are saddened deeply by the latest news. Please let us know if you need anything. Love, Brian and Rena

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Posted By: Tracy Lane

Dear Erik, Lori and Families, Our hearts go out you... you are in our thoughts and prayers every minute of the day. Love, Tracy

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Posted By: Natalie

Linda, I have read your most recent posts and wanted you to know that I have been thinking of you all and what you are going through. My thoughts will be with you going forward as well. Please let the family know how much we all care for what Lori & all of you have been going through....with sincere thoughts

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Posted By: Whitney Evans

Erik, Lori & families – Not a day passes that I don’t reflect on the love, devotion and inspiration your family has taught me. She is such a lucky lady to begin her next journey in life with a heart full of love and warmth. You are all an inspiration in my life and my prayers are with you daily.

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Posted By: A Friend of a friend....

You are a beautiful family with a very touching story. I don't know Lori personally but just through these posts I can tell she is a strong, amazing woman. Hey legacy will most certainly live on...and remember that God never puts more on a person than she can handle. He's taking care of her. You are all in my thoughts.

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Posted By: Kathleen Montesano

Dear Linda (and family), My mother told me about Lori and Erik’s website and I just read through all of the journal entries that Lori, Erik and yourself have added. What an amazing fight Lori has endured. What a strong woman she is. I am completely in awe over the hurdles that she and your family had to endure but at the same time while I am reading these journal entries I am struck by the powerful bond Lori has with her husband and her family! She is so lucky to have all of you. The prayers and celebrations and family togetherness you have all been through is absolutely remarkable. I can only image how difficult this time is for all of you. I will keep you all in my prayers tonight. She is an AMAZING woman who I know will fight ‘til the end. Sincerely, Kathy Montesano (Kevin Brown’s sister)

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Posted By: Dear Lori, Erik, Linda & Your Families:

As always, you are in our many prayers. What a journey you all have been on these past months. You are all blessed with incredible strength and spirit and dignity. I hope it helps even just a little bit to know that you all have touched so many lives and that Lori will continue to touch those lives with you forever! You have such a wonderful family and are giving Lori so much. I'm sure that her heart is warmed & that she can feel all of your love. Lori has always had such a beautiful spirit about her & always will. Prayers and Love for strength and healing. Love Always, Barbara, Jay, Nick, Tyler and Max

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Posted By: Denise Polifka

My continued support and prayers are with all of you at this most difficult time. God's grace be with all of you. Love to everyone. Denise

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Posted By: Howard Tikka

I'm so saddened to hear that the time I feared would happen is getting closer. There isn't a day that goes by that I still hope for some miracle to happen. It absolutely breaks my heart to see what Lori, Erik and the entire family has endured these past two years. Your love for each other has been nothing short of inspiring. And Erik and Linda, I can't thank you enough for sharing Lori's status when she has been unable to. No matter what happens, Lori, I will forever cherish the time I was lucky enough to share with you. Magic Mountain, Disneyland, Santa Barbara, Chicago and even Des Plaines will always have a special place in my heart (along with your smile). I will never forget you, the brief time we spent together, your kind words and your amazing positive spirt. I can only hope your coming days are filled with love, comfort and peace.

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Posted By: Jennifer Ureste

Erik, Linda and Family, Although I was only acquainted with Lori briefly while working at the Field Museum, I wanted to extend to you my deepest sympathies. Your words and actions have been very inspiring and the love you have shines through in every word you write. I'm very sorry and hope that everyone will find peace. You are in my prayers.

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Posted By: Petra Holtermann

Dear Erik, I am very very sad and sorry to learn that soon Lori will not be with you and the other people she loved any more. And that you will not have her with you... I am so sorry for all the pain you and the whole family and all of your friends are going through. But I am also glad to know Lori will be free of pain soon. That is a great consolation. It is good to know that you are all with Lori and that you are all together to lean on each other and feel the love and warmness Lori showed to you. She will be glad to have you all around her. I know that God will give her guidance and a peaceful parting and passing into heaven and another life. I am also sad to write only today but this language always seemed to be even more foreign in such a situation. But my thoughts were and are with you every day. I am reading your website regularly (thanks a lot to Linda) and we have been praying for Loris recovery.She seems to be a wonderful person and like everybody I wished you would have had much more time to spend together. From what you told me and her and later Linda's sharing reports taught me to me Lori seems to be one of the few persons who are like an angel among us! She is so positive thinking and has such a warm heart and I admired her strength, power and even her sense of humour. Part of my prayers was also to get to know Lori personally but now we all have to learn that HE has other plans for her which are rather impossible and difficult to understand right now. I wish I could express my feelings in a better way like the wonderful friends who supported you throughout the whole time are doing. Instead I will send you the words I wrote on the birth and death announcement card of our daughter Stella. It is from "The Little Prince" by Antoine Saint-Exupéry. Unfortunately I do not have the English edition but maybe there is someone to translate either the German or French: "Wenn du bei Nacht den Himmel anschaust, wird es dir sein, als lachten alle Sterne, weil ich auf einem von ihnen wohne, weil ich auf einem von ihnen lache. Du allein wirst Sterne haben, die lachen können!" / " Quand tu regarderas le ciel, la nuit, puisque j'habiterai dans l'une d'elles, alors ce sera pour toi comme si riaient toutes les étoiles. Tu auras, toi, des étoiles qui savent rire!" Dear Erik and Lori, you and your family are all in our thoughts and in our prayers! Petra and Martial

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Posted By: Susan Craigo

My friend Rena has been sharing Lori's steps with her battle to fight this disease. Although, I didn't know Lori personally I have been praying for her to win the fight. Five years ago I lost a close family member to the same disease, he was 35 with two young children and dedicated his live to fighting crime as a Chicago police officer. Lori seems like such a beautiful person, inside and out. Please, know that she is in my thoughts and prayers.

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Posted By: Blondie

Erik, You and Lori are in our prayers soooo much and I just want to say how much I admire your love and caring for such a wonderful lady.She is a fighter just like her mom so don't give up yet. I have known her mom for many years and she's a trooper and so is Lori. KEEP THE FAITH AS HARD AS IT IS TO DO RIGHT NOW.Give Lori a kiss and hug from me.Blondie from South Haven

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Posted By: Linda and George

Linda, Wally, Erik and Family: We wish there were words to ease your sadness at this difficult time, but so many things are not ours to understand in this life. We can only hope and believe that we will be given the gift of understanding when we are reunited in the next life. From Lori and all of you, we learn new lessons everyday - about courage in the face of fear, about the beautiful unselfishness of the human spirit, and about the power of family love. For that gift, we thank you. Our prayers are with you constantly that God will meet all your needs in the days ahead. Love, Linda and George

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Posted By: Rodolfo and Grace Mora

To Erik and Lori: My husband used to work with Erik at HOK and I had the pleasure of meeting Lori in one of their office parties. We were both engaged then so Lori and I talked about our forthcoming weddings. It was clear that she was very excited about becoming Erik's wife. Sadly though, a few months after they got married, Lori became sick. When my husband and I moved to California, this website became our only source of information regarding Lori's condition. It's been a while since we last checked this website so we were really very surprised and saddened to learn of the new updates about Lori's medical status. We just want to tell Erik, Lori and their families that they are in our prayers. We hope that they find peace and comfort in God's love...

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Posted By: Roxanne A.

Linda & family: I thank Jesus for the sweet blessings that he has brought to you this week. "The Lord is my shepherd. I have everything I need. ... Even when I walk through the dark valley of death, I will not be afraid, for you are close beside me. Your rod and your staff protect and comfort me. ...Surely your goodness and unfailing love will pursue me all the days of my life, and I will live in the house of the Lord forever. (Psalm 23:1-6)" Our time here is but a moment, eternity shall be never-ending. The love of Jesus will be your strength and comfort. You are in my prayers. Love in Christ, Roxanne

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Posted By: A friend of Ed's

I just wanted to say how sorry I am for all the pain your family is going through. I have not had the pleasure of meeting Lori but I have heard all about how wonderful she is through Ed. I am a better person because of reading how Lori has tackled this and her strength throughout this. Thank you for allowing me to become a better person and appreciate my family. Your family is an inspiration!

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Posted By: julie morrison

Linda, thank you so much for taking the time to let everyone know Lori's current condition and all of the love she is being surrounded by. I have read everyone's reply and want to express words of compassion, but honestly how I feel is very angry. Angry that Lori has to go so young, angry that she is such a good person and deserved a longer life than most of us. I don't know why God wanted Lori so soon, but I do realize this, Lori LIVED her life in a short time more than most people do in 100 years. She has done and seen so many things, and most importantly touched so many people. I have come to realize that we all have are time to go to God, the only difference is some of us find out how much time we have, and the rest of us take it for granted. Everyday I think about how precious her time is, and how precious all of our time is and how easily we forget that. Your family and Lori have been a blessing to me and mine and I am forever thankful. Love, Julie

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Posted By: Pat Rheel

Linda, I am so sorry to hear about this latest development. I have some experience with hospice care and it is wonderful. I think of you and your family often and especially during Mass every week. I will keep praying for you. If there is ANYTHING that I can do let me know since I'm right here in DP.

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Posted By: Amanda Woszczak

We are all saddened by Lori's illness and current condition. I feel very blessed to have had Lori in my life and that she called me her friend. I cannot help but recall Pope John Paul II's words of "Be not afraid." Lori truly lived her life to the fullest and embraced everything with such joy. Be not afraid, God has big plans for her yet.

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Posted By: julie morrison

Linda, Erik, and Family, I am so sorry to hear the results and have prayed so much for her healing. I believe God has a reason for all he does, and though it may not always be clear, there is a loving father behind everything. Lori's battle has taught many of us the true meaning of love, family, courage and most of all faith. Please know that we all are with you in thought and prayer. All my love, Julie

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Posted By: Roxanne A.

I’m very sorry to hear of Lori’s medical prognosis. Our hope is found in nothing less then Jesus’ love and faithfulness. Through many prayers and confirmations, I trust that Lori's true prognosis is filled with hope. I have peace that if she should pass to the other side, she will be greeted into the loving arms of our Heavenly father, Jesus Christ our Lord. She will be pain free. She will have no more suffering. She will then be completely, fully and totally healed without doubt. She will have great joy. Lori’s soul will be at rest in her heavenly dwelling that Jesus has already prepared for her and is preparing for each of us. We all long for this place. The only place where we truly find rest. Heaven will be filled with the glory of God, and its brilliance is like that of a very precious jewel, clear as crystal. There will be great peace, great beauty, and great love. I pray that all of us can find rest, peace, comfort, and surety in the love of Jesus. He is there to catch all of our tears. He has the ability to strengthen us even when we are most weak. He firmly holds our hearts in his hands bringing great comfort, healing our sorrows, and surrounding us with love. We need only trust in his love and our future is completely secure. He has already paved our path through his death upon the cross. May we all rest in the hope of Jesus. My prayers continue for all of you during this difficult time. I pray for the presence of Jesus to bring you great comfort. May Jesus continue to bless you, strengthen you, deeply love you, and provide for all of your needs. Thank you for allowing me the blessing of knowing and praying for all of you. May the peace of Jesus be firmly grounded deeply within your soul and hearts. Love in Christ, Roxanne

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Posted By: Colleen Chambers

Dear Lori, Erik, Linda and family, You are all in our thoughts and prayers daily. Your fight continues to amaze and inspire us all; your grace is a blessing to behold. Know that God has held your hand in all of your choices and that you've made the one He wants for Lori. May you be at peace and know that you're truly loved by many. Colleen, John and the girls

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Posted By: Pat Thernell

I am sorry to hear about these difficult decisions you are starting to make. Each day ahead will be filled with much emotion for all of you. Your strong family is a blessing to help cope with the challenges that each new day will bring. My thoughts and prayers are with you each and every day.

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Posted By: jolene

My prayers are with you all. Hold on to each other for support while the Lord embraces you all and may the Holy Spirit fill your hearts with peace.

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Posted By: Christine (a friend of a friend)

Lori's physical life may end, but her spiritual life will never end. Jesus is waiting for Lori with arms open wide. She is going to get to heaven and be given a perfect body, one without pain and suffering. She is going to be greeted by all who have come before her. And there is going to be one heck of a party!!! Picture Lori being hugged by our Heavenly Father. We will not have her with us, but she will be happy and alive in Christ. I hope you all can take comfort in the legacy that Lori is leaving behind. Her spirit will live on in it. I have been so overwhelmed by the love that your family and friends have shown. And Lori will leave behind a very big part of her in that love. May you find the peace of our Holy Father. May He wrap His arms around you all and carry you through. In Christ, Christine

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Posted By: Casey & Jaxx

Dear Lori, Erik, Linda and Family -- Am thinking about you every hour of the day, praying for more strength and guidance for you all during these difficult times. I want to say thank you for the brave and loving example of living faith that you have shown, as well as for sharing these updates with your family, friends and neighbors in such a loving way. Please know that you can call on me if you need anything, anything AT ALL, since I frequently work out of the house and can always be reached on my cell (773-456-7985). Rest assured that God is with you, guiding you always, holding you in the hollow of his hand. XOXOXO - Casey & Jaxx

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Posted By: Ann Brown

Just want you to know that the decision you made was with the Lord's help. You ALL are in our prayers. Hold on to yourselves and stay well. Love, Ann

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Posted By: Tony Passero

We are very sorry to learn that you have been having to make some difficult decisions as of late because of Lori's condition.
Although every coming day ahead will be filled with much emotion and challenges for all of you, your love for each other as a family will keep you strong and if not you have a multitude of friends to lean on.
Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you every day, every hour, every minute.
Love Tony, Shannon, Sophia and Nico

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Posted By: Bill & Kim

Erik, Linda & Family, God Bless you all in this most unimaginable of times. We will continue to pray for Lori and your family. God's grace has shown in all of you through this terrible ordeal. You & your family are a testament to strength, courage, & Love. Please let us know if there is anything you need. We are here, thinking of you. Love Bill & Kim

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Posted By: Natalie

Words cannot say what I feel for all of you going through this and of course for Lori. She is young & beautiful and should not be suffering from this horrible disease. My thoughts have been with you since I first joined the list and heard your story. Please feel free to write anytime as you will be dealing with a tough road ahead. You have been so wonderful in the care you have given Lori and you should remember that always...Sincerely, Natalie s/o Gwen who fought the same battle, age 36 2/69-3/05

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Posted By: Julie Monti

We all continue to pray for Lori and your entire family. The decisions ahead are tough...we will keep you in our hearts. And please know we're here to support you no matter what you need. May peace be with you and your family.

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Posted By: Sandy Zmich

I am so sorry to hear the latest results...You guys have some tough decisions to make, but I'm sure whatever they are, it will be the right one..Both Erik and yourself have nothing but the best interest for Lori. Linda, I think about you daily since your 25th anniversary party and can't even begin to imagine how hard this is on you and all the rest of your family..Please know that I pray daily for some miracle to happen...Please do not hesitate to call me day or nite if there is anything at all I can do to help or if there is anything I can do to make you feel better. It has to be fustrating not knowing exactly what is going thru Lori's mind and what to do for her to make it as easy for her as possible...I know in my heart that she knows how much love you guys have for her, so what ever is decided, it was based on all the love imagineable...Friends forever, Sandy

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Posted By: Chris & Heidi

Linda, Erik, I'm sure your thoughts and decisions are based on the love you have for Lori and what is best for her. A decision which is based on this love will be a good decision. Our prayers continue to be with you.

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Posted By: Brian & Rena

Dear Lori, Erik & Linda, We just read the update on Lori and are so sorry you have such difficult decisions ahead of you. Know that we all are praying for you ... Love, Rena & Brian

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Posted By: Jeff and Linda Thompson

Dear Linda and Erik, we can't even begin to imagine what you and your family must be going through, but we are with you in spirit and pray for the best decision to be made during this trying period in your lives. Our love to you and Lori... Jeff and Linda.

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Posted By: Roxanne A.

Linda: I'm so sorry to read of Lori's condition. It must be so difficult. The love that you and Erik have for Lori is great. I'm sure that your love and care brings Lori great comfort and blessing. I will continue to pray for the Lord's strength, presence, and guidance to be with you & Erik. I pray for the love of Jesus to be with you at each and every moment of every day. "May the Lord bless you and keep you; May the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; May the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace (Numbers 6:24-26)." Love in Christ, Roxanne

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Posted By: Lorray Shelby

Hello to all of you, I have kept in touch on how Lori is doing off and on the brain tumor site. My heart truly goes out to all of you. Lori my prayers are with you. I pray for you often and I am so sorry you have to endure all of this. My husband had gbm and was 38 so I know all too well what the family is going through. My heart goes out to all of you. I will continue to keep Lori and the rest of you in my prayers. Take care, Lorray

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Posted By: Denise Polifka

Hello to all of you. I'm a little late, but wanted to let you know what a great time Lee and I had at the anniversary party. It was wonderful to see you all together. You are an inspirational family to say the least. Thank you for making me a part of your lives...I have a lot to learn from all of you. Family closeness and love like yours is hard to come by and is truly a wonderful thing to be a part of. I pray for good things with Lori's upcoming chemo and am keeping all of you in my thoughts. Love, Denise

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Posted By: Sandy & Pete

Lori, Erik, Linda and family, Happy 1st day of summer..So glad to hear you are getting out. (Father's Day). It was so wonderful seeing everyone at your 25th anniversary. Your whole family is such an inspiration, its wonderful how you can just feel all the love amongst you and your family. Linda, I hope your father comes through this okay, which I'm sure he will, your mother still needs him as does the rest of the family. Like you said, you can only endure so much and you have enough on your plate at the time. It was great talking with Lisa and her boys. You guys have some great children..Keep us posted on Dad and Lori...Keep your chin up, I keep praying daily for all of you guys..Miracles do happen. Love to all, Sandy & Pete

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Posted By: Tony Passero

Hey Lori, Erik (and Linda too) Just a quick note to say you are in our collective thoughts and prayers as always. And we are glad to see Lori was able to take her chemo treatment this week and are keeping a positive outlook for the MRi on thursday. God Bless Tony, Shannon, Nico and Sophia

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Posted By: Jacqueline Lavigne McGuire

My family and so many of my friends pray for you and your family every day. Not a day goes by that I do not pause to reflect on your strength and your love for each other. You inspire so many people. Love, The McGuire Family

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Posted By: Katrina

Dear Linda, Lori,Erik and Wally, I enjoyed the anniversay party last week so much. Mostly I was so impressed observing the dynamics of your wonderful family. The support and love you give one another is cause for celebration. I have carried those thoughts with me all week and will continue to to be inspired. My prayers are with you... God bless you. Katrina

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Posted By: daniela and andy

Hi Linda Wally Lori and Erik. Your party on the 13 of June was wonderful. I was very touched by your family closeness. I have enjoed the speaches. I was very glad that Lori was there. Good luck to all of you ,and God bless you.

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Posted By: Lou Vassalotti

Lori and Erik, Just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you both and do so everyday. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love Lou. (As well as many of my friends who have never met you.) May God look over you.

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Posted By: Barbara Burnette (Jay, Nick, Tyler & Max too)

Hello Lori, Erik & Linda: Just wanted you all to know that you are in our prayers & we think of you often! Love & Prayers Always, Barbara, Jay, Nick, Tyler and Max

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Posted By: Roxanne A.

Lori, Linda & Erik: I am so very happy that Lori was well enough to continue with treatment. I continue to pray for the healing power and presence of Jesus to be amidst Lori, and for his great love to strengthen you all. Love in Christ, Roxanne : )

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Posted By: Colleen Chambers

Hi Lori, Erik and Linda, Just checking in to say hello, and to let you know that we're thinking of and praying for all of you. Linda, thanks so much for your updates. Erik and Lori, you remain inspiring; know you're loved. God bless.

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Posted By: Ann & Ron Brown

Just a short note to let you know you and "yours" are in our prayers. My mom's famous saying was to "KEEP LOOKING UP". In other words, NEVER give up. Hang in there, Lori...Love, The Browns

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Posted By: julie morrison

Lori, thinking of you and hoping you are feeling a little stronger every day. I will be praying for good results today. Lots of love, Julie

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Posted By: jay lambert

dear lori and erik, i know you probably won't read this lori, but i just wanted to say that i love you. Erik, in the short time that we spent together you earned my deepest respect and admiration; you are a good man and an even better husband in my opinion. i believe the two of you are unbelievably lucky to have met one another. love like that doesn't come around often these days. one last thing, i can't imagine what you must be going through but just remember that everything is a part of life, even the end. so breathe life into every word, until the point that it's absurd. do that and i think both might make it out of here alive. love, jay

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Posted By: Heidi Gewartowski (friend of your Mom's)

Hi Lori and Erik, you are in our prayers and thoughts everyday! We are thinking good, positive, healing thoughts and are sending them your way. Our Best Wishes for your complete recovery, Heidi, Steve and Eric

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Posted By: Roxanne

Linda: Congratulations on your anniversary. 25yrs is wonderful - such a blessing from God!!!! I am so delighted that Lori was well enough to celebrate every moment with you. I'm continuing to pray for strength for you and Erik, and healing for Lori. God Bless, Roxanne : )

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Posted By: Anna Oliver

Hi Erik & Lori- We continue to pray for you both (and Linda, as well...). I think today I'll focus on Lori getting some peaceful rest that strengthens her and bolsters her blood count. I feel assired that God is closer to her now than ever. I'll pray she feels that today. Love to you all!

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Posted By: julie morrison

Linda,Lori, and Erik, thinking of you all and wondering if there is anything I can do? I would love to see Lori, but it sounds as if she may not be up for company yet. Please call me if I can help with anything, hope to see you soon. Julie

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Posted By: Tracy Lane

Lori - Shannon (my daughter) and I walked in a cancer walk on June 4th and lit a candle in your honor; keeping you, Erik and everyone in our prayers daily. Love, Tracy

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Posted By: Carole in Arizona

Lori & Erik...checking in daily and thinking about you constantly! Praying for a miracle, an angel, good luck, and health all wrapped up in one bundle...God Bless.

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Posted By: Tony Passero

Linda; Two of the employees at my company are very accomplished photographers and I'm sure one of the would be willing to photograph your anniversary party on the "cheap". I'll even let them use our companies equipment to do so. When you have a moment email with the event's date and time and I will speak to them to see if either one is interested...name your price as they both know Lori's plight and I'm sure they would welcome the opportunity to help you out during these trying times

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Posted By: Tony and Shannon Passero

Linda: Please keep us posted on the cost issue for Lori's treatment as a great deal of Lori and Erik's friends would gladly help out to make ends meet to handle the finances for this. I can even work to quickly add a treatment donation page to this site where friends and family can contribute to the treatment fund via a paypal account. A great deal of us would also mobilize very quickly to help out with sometype of fundraiser as Julie suggested just sya the word and we all do what we can to support both Lori and Erik.

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Posted By: Marcia & Rob

We would like to contribute to Lori's treatments. If Linda, Shannon, or Julie want help setting up the fundraising vehicle, just send me an email(marcia88@yahoo.com). Thinking of you always, Marcia & Rob

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Posted By: julie morrison

Tony, I think it would be a great idea to set up something on this website. If it is okay with Linda, Lori and Erik. I would like to be able to refer people to Lori's story through this site and be able to contribute at the same time. What do you think? Let me know, Julie

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Posted By: julie morrison

Linda, thanks for the update, I hope that Lori's current treatment is the one to overcome her illness, but if she needs further medication I reccommend we have a fund raiser. I would be happy to have and or start one. Let me know what you think. Let's pull together and come up with some solutions! Julie

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Posted By: julie morrison

Hi Lori and Erik, now that we have nice weather to enjoy I hope you and Erik are taking advatange of it! I left you a message last week and would love to see you. Hope to talk to you soon, Julie

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Posted By: David + Jody Chassin, St. Louis

Lori, Erik and Family--In spite of the distance, know that our thoughts and prayers for healing are with you.

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Posted By: Steve Evans

Lori and Erik. All my thoughts are with you both. Please take care.

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Posted By: Jen and Tom Laird

Lori and Erik- We are praying that God is with you during this difficult time and that all the prayers your love ones are sending out are answered. Both Tom and I are here for our continued support of you two. All our love, Jen and Tom

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Posted By: Clark Davis

Lori and Erik, one of our HOK colleagues shared your website address with me...we're all pulling for you with our thoughts and prayers. Best wishes to both of you for healing and comfort.

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Posted By: Pat Thernell

Lori & Eric Happy Anniversary. Both Tom and I are praying that you find the right treatment and have a miraculous recovery. God bless you both! Pat & Tom (Thernell)

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Posted By: Lynn and Stan Morris

Good wishes are coming from us on this second anniversary weekend from CA, Pa and BI. We send you our very best.

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Posted By: Bill O

Lori and Erik, Happy Anniversary. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both. B

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Posted By: Casey & Jaxx

Dear Lori (& Erik) -- Thinking about you so much ever since Jaxx and I met you guys on our way to the lakefront last weekend. How lucky we ran into you on that beautiful Spring day. Then I chanced upon Erik in the garage on Tuesday -- he was carrying some beautiful red roses home to his wife for their special Anniversary celebration -- and my heart filled with happiness to see the love and hope he carried home to you along with them!!! I hope this last treatment is working its magic and that you will have much more time to celebrate your love and joy in each other in the future. Jaxx and I have a couple of extra long walks planned for this holiday weekend, to pray for just that very thing!!! Wishing you strength and all God's love for your journey now and always. XOXOXO - C&J

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Posted By: Mojo

Erik & Lori, With contiued thoughts of love, hope, faith and friendship. May God Bless

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Posted By: Jen and Chris Boatman (Vickers)

Hey Lori and Erik.....just a quick note to let you know we are thinking and praying out here in California. I pray everyday that miracles come your way.....keep up the strength and always know u guys will always be in our thoughts!!!!!! With Love Jen and Chris Boatman (Vickers)

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Posted By: Lou Vassalotti

Hi Lori and Erik, I just wanted to let you know I have been thinking about you both a very lot and am praying for you. I know these are the hardest of times and everyone is praying for you both. Love, Lou

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Posted By: Bill Franz

Erik & Lori ... You are in my thoughts and prayers every day ... I admire your strength & courage and I pray for healing, peace & hope. God Bless you and your families during this struggle and as always, if I can do anything for you, I'll be here. Much Love, Billy

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Posted By: Vicki Kibler

Hi Lori and Erik, Happy Anniversary!! Just a little note to say hi and that you are in my thoughts and prayers EVERYDAY! Keep your spirits high - I believe in miracles!! Love and Friendship always, Vicki

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Posted By: Tony Passero

Lori and Erik: Be strong for each other and keep your spirits high. You are both in our collective thoughts and prayers. Linda bless you for being at Lori's side during these trying times you are the model of motherhood.

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Posted By: Roger McFarland

Dear Eric and Lori: You are in my thoughts and prayers and I trust you know that all of us are with you. Roger

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Posted By: Sandy Zmich

Happy 2nd Anniversary with many more to come to a very special couple...We still talk of your wedding day and how beautiful everything was that day....Especially you Lori, you had such a glow about you, when you looked into Erik's eyes....Never loose the glow..Sandy & Pete

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Posted By: Priya

Dear Lori & Erik, Wishing you a very Happy Anniversary! Hope this day brings healthier and more joyful times for the years to come. We continue to pray for you. Love, Priya & Vinay

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Posted By: colleen lee

Dear Lori and Erik, it seems like yesterday that we could hear that wedding white peacock sing it's song...loudly. Your day was full of beauty and lots of happy family and friends. It was a great day. Happy Anniversary to a remarkable couple. Colleen Lee

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Posted By: Tracy Lane

Dear Lori and Erik - Happy 2nd Anniversary! Enjoy your special day, continue to be strong. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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Posted By: Melissa Bettin

Lori & Erik, Happy second anniversary! Enjoy your special day together. Lots of love, Melissa

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Posted By: Mary/Jim Bolda

Dearest Lori and Erik - Happy 2nd Wedding Anniversary to two special people. This is your day...Enjoy it to its fullest! Our prayers are with you always. Love, Mary and Jim

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Posted By: Brian & Rena

Dear Lori & Erik, We are wishing you a beautiful wedding anniversary! You continue to be in our prayers - May God give you the miracle you so deserve. Love, Brian & Rena

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Posted By: Kristi Walker

Lori, These wedding photos of you and your family are so beautiful. I just wanted to wish you and Erik all the best on your two year anniversary. Love, Kristi

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Posted By: Laura Wade

Dear Lori and family, I have spoken with you Linda via email and i am so sorry to hear that the MRI did not go your way. I have never met you or your family, but i feel like i know you since Lori and this web site reminds me so much of myself!! I was also just married in July and was diagnosed in October (im 31). It all just doesnt make sense!! I have been following Lori's progress for a while now - I have certainly prayed for her!! best wishes to you all!!!!

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Posted By: Roxanne A.

Lori Erik Linda & Family: I pray for the blessings of Jesus Christ to remain with you, for his Spirit to strengthen you, and for his love to surround all of you. May the healing presence of Jesus be near to Lori and to all of you. Jesus is the bridge into the loving arms of our Heavenly Father God, into the light of Heaven, and into more glory then can ever be imagined. I pray that we are all blessed with the ability to clearly see His light. May his love be near to you today and always providing comfort and strength. "When I think of the wisdom and scope of God's plan, I fall to my knees and pray to the Father, the Creator of everything in heaven and on earth. I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will give you mighty inner strength through his Holy Spirit. And I pray that Christ will be more and more at home in your hearts as you trust in him. May your roots go down deep into the soil of God's marvelous love. And may you have the power to understand, as all God's people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love really is. May you experience the love of Christ, though it is so great you will never fully understand it. Then you will be filled with the fullness of life and power that comes from God. Now glory be to God! By his mighty power at work within us, he is able to accomplish infinitely more than we would ever dare to ask or hope. (NLT; Ephesians 3:14-20)" Love in Christ, Roxanne

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Posted By: CARLA

Lori and family, I am so sorry to hear the results were not what we all hoped they would be. I think about you everyday and keep praying for you and your family. You have a wonderful mother who is supportive and has lots of love for you! I continue to pray for you be strong I will call your mother tomorrow. Love always, Carla.

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Posted By: Sandy Z.

Lori & family, I am so sorry to hear that your MRI was not more positive. Our continued prayers and thoughts are with you always. There is something out there that will cure this, just keep up the courage, strength, love and faith that you have shown so far and eventually it will happen. Too much love out there not to. Linda, the same goes for you, hang in there...I'm sure its the hardest thing you have ever had to do in your life, but all for a reason..You're the best, I think I have learned alot from Lori and you...Whats important in life..Love you guys, take care..Sandy & Pete

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Posted By: sofia mountford

I lost my mum on Wednesday though this disease, i to wondered about stem cell research, that's the thing i always wondered now your doing something about it you go girl try and do everything you can to save your beautiful daughter, i'v got your site on my favourites so i'll keep checking to see if things are going ok. Sofia

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Posted By: laura caragher

Wishing you all as much warmth and comfort as possible... Linda - it was good to hear your voice the other day. I so admire your strength and compassion. I hope for much love and faith for you in each precious moment. -Laura

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Posted By: ELSA

Hi Lori its been forever ,from the momement I heard you have been in my thoughts,and my prayers I Wish I could wish it all away! I truly envy you for your strenght and your courge. You truly are one tough cookie with so many special gifts. Your wedding pictures are just stunning,you made a beautiful bride congarts on your marriage Erik is one lucky man to land a hot chick like you! But im sure he already knows that. You guys look like barbie and ken I always new you would land a hottie! God Lori, I wish I knew the wright words to say,but I just dont. Please forgive for that. I will be coming out ton see you on thurs if thats ok,Kelly and I will be confirming it with your mom.I cant wait to see you,its been so long. My sisters Merlinda and Michelle are praying for you too they wish you well and say HELLO! If tere is anything you need before Kelly and I come out to see you let us know. See you soon TINY DANCER stay strong,keep the faith!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love & Friendship forever, ELSA

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Posted By: Melissa Bettin

I am so sorry to hear about the MRI results. I will continue to pray for Lori as always. Linda, I am so happy to hear that you have taken time off to be with Lori during the day. She is very lucky to have such a wonderful mother, husband and family by her side. If there is anything I can do please let me know. Love, Melissa

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Posted By: Casey & Jaxx!

Dear Lori, Erik & Linda -- Thinking of you and holding you in our hearts today and every day. Jaxx and I walk many times and I dedicate our footsteps to prayers for you guys (that's double the luck from Jaxx since he has 4 feet in all!) I think we will have to take some LONG walks this weekend....! Hold fast -- feel all that love and strength shining out from all your neighbors and family and friends! God be with you! XOXOXO -- C&J

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Posted By: julie morrison

Linda, Lori and Erik, I am so sorry the results were not what we had all hoped for. Linda, I am so inspired by your hope and dedication. To me, you are what every mother should be. I will call to arrange a visit, as I would love to see Lori. Still praying and sending lots of love. Julie

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Posted By: Denise Polifka

I too, was hoping and praying for some encouraging test results. I'm so sorry things could not have been more positive. I continue to pray and send positive vibes your way. Linda, I realize how difficult this time is for all of you and hope you know if anyone needs anything I am available. I love you all. Denise

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Posted By: Howard Tikka

I'm so sad to hear the MRI results. I was so hoping the prior results would continue their path for the better. I will continue to remain hopeful. Something just has to work! Linda, thank you so much for keeping everyone updated when Lori and Erik are not able to. It's not always easy, but it's always appreciated. Thanks. Lori - keep fighting!!!

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Posted By: Marcia & Rob

Lori, Erik, and Linda, We so sad about the devastating news. But we will continue to have faith that the next chemo treatments (and all of the prayers streaming your way) will cure Lori. Your love, faith, and commitment are inspiring to all who know you. We "check in" on you daily in hopes of good news. We'll never give up. Our thoughts are always with you. Love, Marcia & Rob

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Posted By: Barbara Burnette

Hello Lori, Erik & Linda. I am so sorry to hear that the MRI results were not favorable. Please know that you are all always in my prayers. I hope this new medicine that Lori will be taking can help her. This is such a long, hard fought battle you all have been on. You are such an inspiration of stength in unbelievable circumstances. Keep the faith! Love & Prayers Always, Barbara, Nick & Tyler...& Max

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Posted By: Tony Passero

Hi Lori and Erik, today is my b-day and someone asked me what I wanted my reply was that I really wished for a positive report from the scan for Lori. As always my (as well as Shannon's) thoughts and prayers are with you both. Stay positive!

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Posted By: julie morrison

Linda, Lori and Erik, sending prayers your way for a good scan today. I will be thinking of you with warm positive thoughts. Julie

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Posted By: Bill & Kim

Lori ... We'll be praying for good news tomorrow ... God Bless & Good Luck! Love Bill, Kim & Maggie

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Posted By: Paul & Melissa Zaro

Hi Lori, I just wanted to let you know that you are in our prayers every single day for a recovery. I can see you have many people who love you and pray for you. Hopefully God will see the power of prayer and heal you completely! You are thought of often by us.

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Posted By: Carole Chiappe Krohn

Hi Lori & Erik...wanted to send out some positive vibes from Arizona. I think about your struggles often and hope for the very best towards your recovery.

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Posted By: Colleen Lee

Hello Linda, thank you so much for posting. We check in several times a week and really appreciate you touching base. I can imagine that last thing you feel you owe the rest of us is to write. So, thank you for your effort and care. Lori, is so very much on our minds--believe it or not--on a DAILY basis. We continue to care about and ask for her health and happiness. Thinking of you all, colleen.

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Posted By: julie morrison

Hi Lori, I really would like to see you again, and I don't know if it's okay to call the house. Feel free to call me at 847 612-7970 if you are feeling up for some company. Talk to you soon, Love Julie

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Posted By: Marcia - Running a Marathon in Honor of Lori

Lori & Erik, Great news on the scans!! I have sent out this email below to my friends and family in honor of you. Please read this link & forward to your friends & family. http://www.justgiving.com/pfp/marciadonziger Dear Friends, On June 5th, I will achieve a goal I've had for a decade - running the San Diego marathon. Exciting news - I am recruiting you as my Marathon Support Team! Since most of you can't be there in person, would you consider sponsoring me online? I am dedicating this marathon to Lori, a special friend in Chicago, who inspires everyone she knows through her journey to overcome brain cancer. My goal is to raise $10,000 for Healing Odyssey, an incredible non-profit organization that empowers cancer survivors and their families. Please read more at my fundraising webpage and donate online by clicking on this link: http://www.justgiving.com/pfp/marciadonziger Thank you in advance for your support - it means everything to me. Best Wishes, Marcia

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Posted By: Colleen Lee

Just read the great news! WOW. WOW. WOW. Isn't it amazing how powerful we are collectively? Lori, your positive spirit is clearly proving to be the most important force. For what it's worth, I believe YOU (who YOU are)is the single greatest reason for this latest report. Bravo. Thinking of You, Colleen Lee.

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Posted By: Your Dancing Pal Lynn

Hey Lori.....What great news....My prayers are still with you. You know I am soooo here for you! I just wanted to let you know how beautiful you looked at the get together you & your family had for you....I was so glad to be there for you and so happy to hear that cute little giggle you still have! ha ha! Your spirits were up and you looked great. I still would love to see you again and spend some time with you...Carla and I would like to come out by you and share some fun times together and watch some old dance videos and just have a few laughs together. I am going to get in contact with your mom and erik and set up a date within the next week to come out and see you. Hey if this weather gets better, maybe we can take your cute dog out for a walk and enjoy some nice fresh air...Keep in touch, love you!!! Hugs & kisses to you! Lynn (Zaro) Arevalo

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Posted By: LORI

HI MY FRIEND, I AM SO HAPPY TO HEAR THE GOOD NEWS! I AGREE WITH YOUR MOM LETS KEEP UP ALL THE PRAYING. I AGREE WITH JULIE A FOLLOW UP PARTY WOULD BE A GREAT IDEA. NOT A DAY GOES BY THAT I THINK TO MYSELF WOW SO MANY YEARS HAVE GONE BY THAT WE HAVENT SEEN EACH OTHER BUT I AM GLAD WE ARE PART OF EACH OTHERS LIVES AGAIN!!!!!! YOU ARE AND ALWAYS HAVE BEEN A STRONG, TALENTED,AND INTELLIGENT PERSON KEEP IT UP BE STRONG MY FRIEND SO WE CAN HAVE MANY MANY MORE WONDERFULL TIMES TOGETHER. AGAIN. IF YOU NEED ANYTHING PLEASE CALL ME:) I REALLY WANT TO TALK TO YOU AND SEE YOU AS SOON AS POSSIBLE I MISS YOU! CARLA (YOUR DANCE PARTNER) REMEMBER OUR NICK NAMES? SALT AND PEPPER HA HA LUV YA HON.......

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Posted By: Laura, Kevin and Tyler

It was nice to see you Sunday at the party. Thank you for inviting us. You are always in our thoughts and prayers. Don't give up, be strong even when you feel you can't go on. You are loved by so many. We are all here for you. God Bless you both. Laura, Kevin and Tyler

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Posted By: julie morrison

I have goose bumbs!!! This is awesome news. I am so happy. Let's all keep the prayers coming. I suggest maybe another follow up party soon! It was so great to see you and your family. All my love, Julie

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Posted By: melissa bettin

I am so happy to hear the news! Many times... family, friends and prayer are al